Wednesday, 1 August 2012

GIVE & GAIN RESPECT By:Saad Chhotani


What is respect? We solicit this question several times, but we never consider, why respect? Respect is a state of treating peoples exactly the ways we want to be treated by other. Let it be fairly simpler. Why we eat bread with butter? Because bread with out butter will taste dry or not expedient to swallow with pleasure, there fore butter plays a very imperative part in increasing the taste of bread. As the butter plays a crucial part in moderating the flavor of the bread. Same theory undergoes with the taste of other’s behavior when you give respect, you get the healthier and sound outcomes.
                  As we have discussed regarding the importance of respect, there is a very important term called self respect, usually people with less skills and qualities found themselves in the state of loneliness, bitterness, negative behavior and low self esteem that results in low self respect. Self respect is some thing that we have to build up; it cannot be easily obtained, so here are simple tips to develop a vigorous self respect.
Tip 1) Ask yourself a simple question, who are the people you respect in your life? After thinking of a few of the people you respect a list of desired personal traits that resulted in this respect will come to your mind. This list of traits is what you need to go after if you want to gain self respect. If for example, you found that you respect someone because he has deep knowledge about something then following his foot steps will result in letting you respect yourself more.
Tip 2) especially for the students who think that they have no respect among their cliques and friends, don’t have to be bothered any more. Give less time to your friends, become scarce like a diamond to increase your value. If some one of your friend make fun of yours be cool, give a smile and don’t try to give any impulsive response, and maintain your self calm, that practice will give them sense of embarrassment & ashamed for their selves. Start making new friends it will help you to acquire preference over your friends. The most important obsession that we have to adopt and develop is to; keep your private life, well private. Rather than making very close friends, just make friends, this pattern will benefit you to keep your secrets and saves you from self exploitation. Make sure that you are not inferior than others no one is inborn perfect, if anybody realizes you to be inferior that person can be dodgy for you and it’s an advice that you should give space to those peoples. And start living your life in your own style. Ending with a very simple but the most valuable quote, “No one can deprive your self-respect until and unless you let go your respect your self” Via (Saad Chhotani)
Regards: Saad Chhotani
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Sunday, 29 July 2012



Being motivated is a great effort. Our drive is persistently forcing us to think negative aspect of our future. But there is a gap between success and failure. That gap I named is 3L “Three L” 1) lack of confidence, 2) lack of interest & 3) lack consistency.
     It is the common practice of the youth that they keep on going on the mercy of temperament. Selecting the purpose for their lives, without acknowledging skills & interests can be a disaster, Results in frustration & dissatisfaction. The preliminary step that has to be taken is to be acquainted with the purpose of life and then assigning the available resources prudently. Set your purpose according to your interest & satisfaction rather than setting goals according to the available resources, put efforts and obtain the required resources.
          There is a saying that “No one can Motivate you until & unless u wanted to motivate you self” there is a direct connection between satisfaction and motivation. If a person satisfied by his or her purpose he can be easily motivated towards it. The point to be noted is “SELECT THE RIGHT PURPOSE”.
          Confidence can never be a justification beside success, there is a saying “Don’t complain; just work harder.” via Chris Grosser, never frightened with the lack of confidence but try to discover the solutions to fill the gap. Keep consistent with the purpose. Don’t think that you have no resources to achieve your goal, but you have to think the other way, you can say that you have goal to obtain the resources. The day when you start thinking irrationally, you will develop a new disposition inside yourself and that is the motivated person ready to struggle for the accomplishment.
               Ending with few judicious words that “Don’t wait for the opportunities try and formulate your efforts, and success will be yours” Via (Saad Chhotani).

             “Believe with all your heart that you will do what you were made to do” Via (Orison Swett marden)