AUTHOR: SAAD CHHOTANI
GIVE & GAIN RESPECT
What
is respect? We solicit this question several times, but we never
consider, why respect? Respect is a state of treating peoples exactly
the ways we want to be treated by other. Let it be fairly simpler. Why
we eat bread with butter? Because bread with out butter will taste dry
or not expedient to swallow with pleasure, there fore butter plays a
very imperative part in increasing the taste of bread. As the butter
plays a crucial part in moderating the flavor of the bread. Same theory
undergoes with the taste of other’s behavior when you give respect, you
get the healthier and sound outcomes.
As we have
discussed regarding the importance of respect, there is a very
important term called self respect, usually people with less skills and
qualities found themselves in the state of loneliness, bitterness,
negative behavior and low self esteem that results in low self respect.
Self respect is some thing that we have to build up; it cannot be easily
obtained, so here are simple tips to develop a vigorous self respect.
Tip
1) Ask yourself a simple question, who are the people you respect in
your life? After thinking of a few of the people you respect a list of
desired personal traits that resulted in this respect will come to your
mind. This list of traits is what you need to go after if you want to
gain self respect. If for example, you found that you respect someone
because he has deep knowledge about something then following his foot
steps will result in letting you respect yourself more.
Tip 2)
especially for the students who think that they have no respect among
their cliques and friends, don’t have to be bothered any more. Give less
time to your friends, become scarce like a diamond to increase your
value. If some one of your friend make fun of yours be cool, give a
smile and don’t try to give any impulsive response, and maintain your
self calm, that practice will give them sense of embarrassment &
ashamed for their selves. Start making new friends it will help you to
acquire preference over your friends. The most important obsession that
we have to adopt and develop is to; keep your private life, well
private. Rather than making very close friends, just make friends, this
pattern will benefit you to keep your secrets and saves you from self
exploitation. Make sure that you are not inferior than others no one is
inborn perfect, if anybody realizes you to be inferior that person can
be dodgy for you and it’s an advice that you should give space to those
peoples. And start living your life in your own style. Ending with a
very simple but the most valuable quote, “No one can deprive your
self-respect until and unless you let go your respect your self” Via (Saad Chhotani)
Thanks
Regards: Saad Chhotani
Email: saadchhotani@ymail.com
Contact: 0312-2378321